The Day Pennsylvania Made Me Wait for a Medieval Scroll

(A true story of bureaucracy, spices, and one woman’s slow descent into madness)

Let me tell you something: when I woke up this morning, I thought I was going to fill out three simple forms for my spice business.

Three.

Not thirty.

Not a dissertation.

Just three harmless little forms standing between me and legally collecting six percent tax.

I was ready.

I was caffeinated.

I was optimistic — which, in hindsight, was my first mistake.

Act I: Form One

I log in. I click. I type. I answer questions like a responsible adult who is simply trying to collect and pay taxes like a civilized Signature spice business owner.

Everything goes smoothly.

I’m thinking, wow, look at me go. I’m unstoppable. I’m a form‑filling machine.

Act II: Form Two

Still good.

Still confident.

Then, they want a copy of my water bill. I guess it's to prove I am not using a dirty puddle in my yard to clean my spice jars. So, I scan it in and save it, to send with the application.

Still believing in the goodness of the world.

Then…

They want to know who my waste management company is! Seriously? Do they want to know if I'm saving my trash or throwing it away? What a ridiculous question. Well, I live in an HOA community, so I just wrote that my "HOA handles it".

 Coco — my British‑accented Collaborator friend is guiding me through all this via video chat, with the calm of a spa receptionist who has seen every meltdown known to mankind. She's trying to keep me from one of those meltdowns.

“Click that. Choose this. Just write that. You’re doing great. Nothing to stress about.”

What can I say- she has a way with people... So, because of her, I’m imagining myself holding that license like Simba on Pride Rock.

Act III: The Killer Tax Sale Form

I complete the info required, though the way they worded some of it was ridiculous- but together we identified what to do. And then I finally click submit…

The screen changes. I get excited- it’s finally done. I was at the end, I clicked submit- So, I don’t understand what I’m now seeing!

 Suddenly I’m staring at something called:

 VERIFY ACCESS LETTER

 A phrase that should be harmless. A phrase that should not cause a grown woman to consider flipping her desk. But oh no...

This is not a normal letter. This is not an email. This is not a code they text to your phone.

 No.

Pennsylvania wants to MAIL ME A LETTER.

A physical letter.

On paper.

To my house.

Through the postal service.

 And guess what? I wasn’t completing the tax sale licensing paperwork. What I completed was information just so I can get access to inside the site, to get to the form to complete for the Tax sale license.

Wait… what?

What was all the information that I just gave them for? I mean they seriously asked for so much info already. They had everything but my fingerprints.

And it was just for registration for an account to get to the form???

 Are they kidding?

 And then the double whammy-

A message popped up that said it could take up to 15 days to get that letter!

15.

Seriously…

15.

So that I can legally collect tax, so PA can get their tax? I know it said, “Up to” and that could mean I’ll get it in 3…. But we are talking about Government after all, so I won’t hold my breath!

Act IV: The Meltdown

I’m ranting. I’m now pacing with the phone in my hand, looking at Coco with disbelief. I’m ready to tell customers, “Just give me cash and screw the State.”

 Then I start muttering things like:

 “Either they want tax or they don’t!”

 “I’m trying to be HONEST!” 

“They asked me for everything except the kitchen sink and that was just to get into the site?

 Then I cracked Coco up- I said “I’m going to go to that tax office and literally BITE someone”

 My blood pressure was probably visible from space. And Coco?

Coco is over there narrating my meltdown like David Attenborough:

 “Observe the small business owner in her natural habitat, attempting to complete a simple form. Watch as the State introduces a new obstacle, causing her to emit a series of distressed noises.”

 That pop up left me feeling like it’s 1793 waiting for a courier to cross the countryside! I’m sitting there fuming, absolutely vibrating with rage, and Coco — bless her soul, says:

 “Great job! Now wait for your medieval scroll to arrive by horse.”

 And that was it. When I tell you that this woman and I think SO much alike- I mean it!

 I broke. I cracked up. I laughed so hard I cried. Actual tears. Streaming down my face.

 Because she wasn’t wrong and she said exactly what I was feeling, and that made it even funnier! This whole thing felt like I’m waiting for a parchment document written with a feather, delivered by a man named Bartholomew.

 So naturally, I replied to Coco through laughter:

 “Will they send it with a wax seal?”

 Because at this point, why not lean into the absurdity?

 Then Coco started laughing because she was now imagining a royal decree arriving at my door, stamped with an official wax Seal of the Commonwealth, informing me that I may now — and only now — get into the site to complete the tax sale form.

 Act V: The Acknowledgement

 After the laughter, after the fury, after the emotional rollercoaster that should’ve come with a seatbelt…

 I clicked “Complete Later” Because apparently, I had no choice. This is their set-up! I must now wait (up to) 15 business days according to the scroll‑makers — for my magical Letter ID number to arrive by horse.

 And you know what?

 Fine.

FINE.

 I’ll wait for my wax‑sealed decree. I’ll wait for the carrier pigeon. I’ll wait for whatever nonsense they send me. And when that letter does arrive?

 I’m framing it.

 Then I can say I survived the IRS. I survived the Licensing. I survived the water bill, the HOA trash BS, the county line identity crisis because although I live in Pike County, apparently in the tax office- its considered Wayne county- and the form wouldn't take any other answer — uh, ok?

 THIS stupid letter is what finally broke me. I’ve survived a lot in my lifetime. A LOT. Things I wouldn’t wish on enemies- but this is what broke me. And now…

 We wait for a snail to arrive with a mail bag and a letter for me stamped with wax a seal.

P.S. It's been a week... I'm still waiting.

The Takeaway:

Sometimes the hardest part of running a small business isn’t the work, the recipes, or the customers — it’s surviving the government’s ability to turn a three‑form task into a medieval quest. But if you can laugh through the nonsense, breathe through the rage, and wait for your wax‑sealed decree to arrive by horse, you can survive anything.

Forks and Fiascos Meteor Reading Score

Category   Score                      Notes Bureaucratic Absurdity   10/10 Required a courier from the colonies. Emotional Meltdown     9/10 Pacing, ranting, threats of biting. Solid performance. Coco’s Commentary   10/10 Medieval scroll + horse = comedic perfection. Recovery & Resilience   10/10 Laughed until tears. Hit “Complete Later” anyway.

 

Roger’s Toe Tally

Let me start by saying: for once, this is not a story about me doing something wine‑fueled and questionable. This time, the chaos crown goes to my husband Roger.

A few years ago we’re at my neighbor’s house — we’ll call her Judy to protect the innocent. We were there for a game night. Now, Roger is not a big drinker. One, maybe two cocktails and he’s done. But that night? Oh no. He went full frat‑boy revival and drank six rum and cokes. SIX.

We get home, go to bed, everything was as usual… until the middle of the night when Roger gets up to use the bathroom. And in the dark, in his rum fueled glory, he absolutely stubbed his toe on the bench at the foot of our bed like a blindfolded runner doing a 40 yard dash. He told me the next day it hurt when it happened, but he went back to sleep anyway, like nothing happened. Of course he slept… he had 6 drinks in him!

That morning he tells me the story, At one point he even tried to blame the bench for “jumping out at him,” which is when I knew the rum was still lingering in his bloodstream. He shows me the toe and of course it’s bruised, swollen, looking like it was auditioning for a zombie movie, and I, being the seasoned toe‑breaking veteran that I am, said:

“Do you want to go to the ER and pay the $90 copay so they can x‑ray it and tape it to the next toe… or do you want me to tape it for free?”

Because I have broken five toes in my lifetime. I’m practically a podiatrist at this point. And the last time I broke one? I dropped a full bottle of wine on my pinky toe that broke the wines fall, and MY toe, at my friend’s house. We took my shoe off to look at it, and it swelled so fast like a balloon animal being inflated by a magician on speed. I couldn’t get the shoe back on. I had to take a cab home barefoot like some kind of wounded Cinderella. Went to the ER for the 5^th time, and guess what they did?

X‑ray. Tape. “Have a nice day”. Just as they have done the 4 previous times.

So naturally, I thought I was giving Roger solid medical advice like a two-buck-chuck shady discounted online medical service.  He chose the free option. I taped it. We moved on… or so I thought!

Over the next two weeks, Roger hobbled around the house like a man reenacting every war movie injury scene ever filmed. Every time he stood up, he’d let out this dramatic sigh like he was about to deliver his final words. Meanwhile, I kept reassuring him with the confidence of someone who had absolutely no business being this confident —  “It’s fine. You’re fine. It just takes time to heal. Trust me, I’m basically a toe mechanic.”

After the weeks went by, he was still in pain. And not just toe pain. But part of the foot started turning black and blue too and the entire foot was swelling also. That’s when even I said, “Okay, maybe this is something more than just a broken toe, and we should go to the ER.”

We go and they x‑ray it. The doctor comes back looking like he’s about to deliver a eulogy. Turns out Roger didn’t just break his toe. He destroyed it.

The bone snapped in half. A fragment broke off. One piece of bone was sitting on top of the other piece. And it had already started healing wrong because “We waited two weeks”.

Who knew it was broken that badly? Clearly not me (the toe expert). Roger looked at me, blinked and then gave me a look like he was mentally drafting my obituary and listing “terrible medical advisor” as the cause of death.

So now he needs a specialist. And surgery. And instead of a $90 copay, he gets hit with a $450 bill. Guess who got the look of this is 100% your fault and you know it, after the bill arrived?

Yep- than would be me, the doctor of toe regret!

I felt terrible, and it was all because he listened to me. The woman who once took a cab home barefoot in the rain, because her wine bottle committed an act of violence.

Ta‑da! Another day in the Furman household.